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Simple non messy suicide ways?
I want to kill myself soon but I don't want to make a big mess for my family to clean up. I was hoping to think of something that was quick and painless but I can't find one that meets all of my criteria. My life is a wreck and I'm so tired of living. My boyfriend broke up with me, my best friend isn't my friend after all, and I can't find a job even. My mom doesn't know I'm suicidal even and I just don't want her to have to deal with a big bloody mess if I did something. So, what are some fast and nonmessy ways to commit suicide at home?
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hey im sofia im 15 i dont no how old you are but i do no that evrybody that gives you crap is wanting you to react to it so dont x
your just going thrugh a difficalt stage in your life atm bbe so your bf bbroke up with you mine doe that yesterday theres pleanty more fish in th sea you just have to find your nemo
tell your mom how you feel
i had to in the end tell my mom ivetryed to kill myself 7 8 times all because i was to scared to face it
i have to tell you trying and failing is worce than never trying because you can c a councorller or talk to your mom she will help you she loves you bbe she dont wnna come home and find her baby dead that would hurt her more than you asking her for help just rember that there isnt a easy way out that i can garentee you
you do have to suffer and you do have to fight but i promise you tht you will come out of it a hole lot better x
good luck darlin x
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First; no one on this site is going to tell you how to commit suicide. Second; suicide is always messy either physically for the person trying to commit suicide or for those they leave behind. Third; most suicides are not successful. Life is not like that which is portrayed by Hollywood. For whatever reason you are contemplating suicide the chances are 90% against success and 100% for you ending up being in a worse condition then you are in now. The human body is designed to do everything it can to save itself. To do so it will start shutting down systems in order to continue to oxygenate the most vital systems with the Brain being the last system to be maintained. This is why in real life we will always try to resuscitate a drowning victim.
From what you have written you sound depressed. I have been where you are now and can tell you with 100% certainty things will get better. For the moment your perspective on life is skewed by the depression you are suffering. Once treated, most likely with medication and some talk therapy you will start to see things in a different perspective.
You sound actively suicidal; please pick up the phone and dial 911 or go to the nearest hospital emergency room. Do not worry about the cost of treatment, there are programs available to cover the medical costs.
You can also like you to call the National Suicide hot line. There number is: 1-800-273-TALK (8255). They operate 24/7 and are totally free and confidential. They have a network of crisis center around the country they can refer you to for help, probably one right in your home town or close to you. The call takers are trained professionals who are volunteers and are there to help you; so please give them a call, they can and will help you through this.
IF YOU HAVE PLANS TO IMMEDIATELY HURT YOURSELF PLEASE CALL 911 NOW. THINGS WILL GET BETTER ONCE YOU RECEIVE TREATMENT FOR THE DEPRESSION I BELIEVE YOU ARE SUFFERING.
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No such thing.
Sure, there might be methods out there that are not messy in a "doesn't require mop and bucket" kind of way, but the emotional mess can't be prevented, and that's the worst kind.
I know this from the perspective of someone who has tried and failed, and seen what even a near miss does to those around them.
We have some things in common. I've been beyond the point where I stopped wanting to live. I've felt like my life is an irretrievable failure, after failing out of school several times and losing all of my friends and most of my family due to my depressive spells. I had almost nothing left, and what little there was couldn't keep me above the surface.
When I tried, I caused a huge ripple effect around me. My fiance blamed himself, because he was home when I took the pills and he didn't stop me. My father started to drink and ended up in a deep depression. My mother was trying to hold the family together. My sister didn't find out until after her exams, thank goodness, but when she did find out it ruined her winter holidays. My friends blamed themselves for not doing something. Everyone was hurting, and it was all because of me. And I didn't even succeed. Just think what you'd be doing to your mother, going without any warning like that. You at least need to give her a chance to help you.
There is always hope, and always a reason to live. I went and got help through a crisis line in my city. I got involved with a psychiatrist, got diagnosed, got on a medication that works (after a few trials and errors), got counselling to help me develop coping skills, and now, 10 months later, I'm looking at being cut loose from regular care. I'm happy and healthy, for the first time in the last 5 years.
You need to talk to someone close to you; a friend, a parent, a guidance counselor, a crisis hotline. You need to get help to get you through this. No boy is worth killing yourself over, and neither is a false friendship. Just because you can't get a job doesn't mean you're worthless... look at the unemployment rates these days. You're not alone. Take some time to rebuild yourself. Live for you for a while, and try to fill your days with things that make you happy and fulfilled.
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Alright, here's some advice from someone that has been in the same situation as you...
Seriously. I know personally how it feels, and how sometimes you might wish you didn't feel anything at all instead of constant pain. The truth is though it doesn't have to be that way and once you find some happiness even a little you will look back at this point in your life and thank yourself you didn't do it.
Here's my advice and the answer you have been looking for. Get on some anti-depressant drugs immediately. You might as well try it out you have nothing to lose! You need to let others know what's going on.
If anything else live for others that care about you. I want you to live, and I guarantee you most people would say the same. After I started telling other people what was going on with my depression only then did my life finally start changing.
Just remember this. If you kill yourself you will be guaranteed to never feel happiness ever again, and there is no redo.
Whatever situation you are in you can resolve later, but you must take action immediately and you need to get on anti-depressants. Let friends or family know what's going on and if you want an anonymous person to talk about suicide call this number 1-800-784-2433
Good luck. Time really does heal all wounds, but you have to stick in there to find out for yourself.
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