Question Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 8:59 am
so me & my boyfriend had sex & he pulled out & busted a nut. then it was on my covers & i put my leg down & it got on my leg & i wipped it off, does that mean i can get pregnant? i mean it was during my period. then the other time was two days after my period ended, we did it again & he pulled out but left it go all over him & i put my leg down once again & i wipped it off, then he wipped himself off then we started again, can i get pregnant? i'm really nervous so please give me a straight forward answer.
Your boyfriend needs to use a condom. For starters, it's pretty unhygienic to spill semen all over the place and a condom would keep it all contained and it would be super easy to dispose of it neatly.
But really, the issue here is pregnancy. Pre-ejaculate can contain sperm. It's what oozes out of the penis during sex, prior to the final finish.
Additionally, relying on your boyfriend to pull out at the correct time is like playing roulette with your uterus. All the control over YOUR body lies with another person timing his orgasm correctly (which he may not do, on top of having the sperm in the pre-ejaculate). Is that really okay with you? Imagine reading "pregnant" on a test and think how you will feel when you realize that you allowed it to happen just so your bf wouldn't have to wear a condom. Will it be worth it? Hells to the no.
You can also get pregnant on your period. It's less likely, but definitely not impossible. It happens and it's not terribly rare. Please make an appointment with your doctor to get on a form of birth control, and make your BF use a condom, too. Doubling up methods is the best way to stay safe when you have sex. [ Kendra_Berri's advice column | Ask Kendra_Berri A Question ]
Sageadvisor answered Saturday September 11 2010, 11:28 pm: Yes of course you can get pregnant from that. It's not super likely - i.e. the odds are in your favor, but why aren't you using condoms? Do you WANT to get pregnant? Get an at-home test. You're probably fine, but make sure.
Come on, use your head. Use a condom every time, and go on the pill if you can until you're ready to have kids. It ain't rocket science.
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