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i think im a lesbian and i think she knows i love her
k so im going into year nine now and iv kinda liked this girl scince the begining of year 8. shes now one of my best friends and im still in love with her i think. out of my 4 best friends only one of them knows and she definatly would never tell anyone. but loving her has kinda been on and of. Some days I really want to kiss her and tell her I love her, but then others Im happy just talking to her and hugging her. And also, I think she might know im inlove with her cos she hates me at the moment ( if you want the whole story- [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)) so yeah she doesn’t let me hug her any more and stuff. And I don’t know wheather to tell her or not?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
There is nothing lesbian about thinking your friend is physically attractive or has a great personality. If you have a close bond with her and have that sort of "tight friendship" then there is nothing lesbian about that.
Lesbianism kind of means you want to have sex with her.
We're not talking about kissing or making out.
We're talking about sex-sex. Like, you both getting naked and putting lips upon lips (you get the idea, I'm sure).
If that idea is a bit icky then you probably have a normal, healthy FRIENDSHIP with your friend.
Growing up I had a friend I was really quite fond of. I thought of her a lot. I loved her very much--but as a sister. Lesbianism wasn't too common then where I lived so I never questioned my sexuality but I know I was very, very close to my friend. I thought she was pretty, has a great personality, and was well put together. Did I want to have sex with her or go down on her though? NO!
Ask yourself about the whole "sex" idea with this girl--or any girl, for that matter. If your thoughts are, "Well...yeah...I do..." then you probably are not straight. If you say, "No, that's kinda icky. She's really pretty but...no..." then congratulations on being straight.
From there, you should probably just tell her if you turn out to be a lesbian. If you never do tell her then you'll always have that "what-if" feeling. Be prepared to lose the friendship though. Being open and honest means giving it your all. You could lose her as a friend forever and freak her out badly or you could wind up in a relationship with her. Weigh the pros and cons and figure it out.
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