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Is this girl socially awkward or just a bitch?!
This girl I met this year in school seemed really cool abd funny. So we started talking and hung out a few tines. She said she wasn't friends with any girls because she doesn't like drama & she doesn't go many places because of drama.
I had like ten friends over and she was one of them and she could not get into group conversation. Someone would be telling a story and she'd interrupt Abd try to have a seperate conversation. She was kind of awkward at this get together. Then the things she says are kind of rude. She wanted to go to this concert and asked ne to go, it was a band I did not like and it was also on my 18th birthday. I was like I can't go it's on my birthday and were going away for the entire day. She said something like "I can't believe your not fucking going with ne I can't find anyone else to go with me I can't believe your not going thanks a lot" I was like geez calm down. I just found that really rude. And then I just got a puppy and I texted " hey what are you doing tomorrow let's hang out you can see mally" she responded back "lol ummmm idk..come over see mally and then leave" like what the heck. And I sent that to two other people and they understood what i said any everything. So what should I do? Say something? Stop talking to her? What would I say?
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okay i'm gunna explain things to you so you can decide for yourself what to do, then i'll tell you what I'd do.
She felt awkward at your party because she probably isn't used to being around lots of people, like you said she only has a few friends. She probably interrupts because she dosen't like people talking about stories she wasn't there for, because she feels left out and trust me no girl likes that. you said shes kinda rude, maybe she's just trying to flirt but isn't very good at it yet, try telling her shes a bit full on sometimes. she was being funny with texts because she probably has a problem with the amount of time she stays at your house. Maybe she feels you don't see her enough or don't have her around enough. Maybe she wnated to make a day out with you and your puppy. I think she likes to feel even though she has no friends she still gets asked out places, shes trying to force you into asking her to go places. She was upset about the concert probz because you didn't invite he ron your birthday day out so she organised this concert thing hoping you'd cancel everything to go with her, pushed the boat out by asking you for once which sounds like she never does ask other to do things with her and then when you cancelled on her she got mad and felt insecure.
your choice either deicde its okay she canet upset if I turn her down as long as I ask her to places as well we'll be ok.
Or think, shes too insecure for me do I really want her abusive texts everytime I turn her down and I don't really want to fee like I have to ask her everywhere just so she feels included.
Try and include her more, if you keep her, but if I were you think carefully cuz something defo needs saying. Explain to her that you don't have to ask her to go places and do things with her just to prove that you love/like her. Say you like her because she is different not the other way around and say you'd like it if she could just try and be calmer with you and explain things when she gets mad wiht you good luck .
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yeah she sounds like a bitch. i can see why she doesnt have very many girlfriends. SHE seems like drama. i would just stop hanging out with her and talking to her less and less. this way you can avoid a confrontation which gurantee she would love one cause she seems like drama. you seem to have a lot of nice friends so you dont really need her. you saw her true colors. maybe someday in the future she will come around and act better but for now i would count her out of your life. no need to hang out with bitches.
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She sounds insanely rude. You're actually really nice for putting up with her! Stop being THAT nice lol forget about her...you seem to have other friends and for you to recognize that her behavior seems rude means that you're used to being treated better, so stick with the friends you already have! :)
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