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Boys are all i have
I feel like all my friends are boys...because they basically are. I do have some girl friends, but 90% of the time I'm just texting a bunch of guys, and I'll hang with only guys alot. I'm a girl, and I am pretty and blonde and guys tend to like me alot. I've been told guys just want to get in my pants, but alot of them seem to be great friends to me.
My problem is that at social events, guys seem to HAVE to be with guys, and girls seems to HAVE to be with girls in one big clump. I feel left out there because I'm not friends with too many girls, and i can't be with my guys because they are with all the other guys.
All the girls like me, were friendly and all, but i really dont have anything to talk to them about. but i just hate feeling left out.
I'm not really sure what to do, because girls are tough to become friends with.
Any advice?
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Maybe you could try and make friends with maybe 2 or 3 girls and leave the rest. It sounds to me like you just dnt feel like you want or need to make girl friends. Make some, just tp hang around with. Talk to your guys as you do and just go with the girls when the splitting happens. Yo0ur fine to be mates with guys don't let anyone put you down for it. Go with the guys if you'd rather, its where your comfortable and clearly your not a tomboy just a very pretty and comfortable girl.
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well guys are really fun to hang out with. that's why your selection of friends majority are guys. however you should at least find one girl friend companion that u feel comfortable with. it doesnt hurt to have at least one friend which is a girl .you should look for a energetic,care-free and sarcastic girl friend. that way you wont feel weird hanging out with her and she would make a great friend at social events...
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Lots of unnecessary social pressures are put on boys and girls to act and look a certain way.
You don't HAVE to be friends with more girls than boys, contrary to what most girls will tell you.
If you're happy that 90% of your friends are boys, then that's awesome. Nobody can tell you who you have to be friends with.
However, if you feel like you'd be happier with a couple more female friends, then by all means go make some female friends.
Talk to girls more. Even if you have nothing in common, that doesn't mean you can't be friends. My best friends and I are total opposites; it keeps things interesting. I can get another point of view on something, or see an issue in a different light. Having nothing to talk about doesn't necessarily mean having nothing in common.
Girls will appreciate that you're friendly and making an effort to talk to them more.
Don't wait for them to make the first move.
Arrange for some girls to meet you at a movie that you think you'd all enjoy or go to the mall. Whatever you think would be enjoyable.
You can introduce them to your male friends and hang out with them at the same time, to lessen the awkwardness in an environment you're already comfortable in. Girls and boys don't have to hang out separately. If you'd like to hang out with girls more, just start doing it. Invite them places, drop hints that you're dying to see a particular concert/movie, etc.
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