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Whats wrong with me? Why can't I leave my boyfriend?
My bf doesnt really seem to be on point as far as being professional in the future i know i deserve better its not that i have a self esteem issue because i know i can get anyone i want so why is it so hard for me to leave my bf and find better, is love really that blind
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My friend has the same problem with her boyfriend. She is going to her first year of college and he is going into his senior year in high school. He isn't the nicest person, especially to her. One time her phone was messed up and she couldn't answer a text from him for about an hour and he got mad at her and didn't talk to her for two days, he tells her to eff off and to leave him the hell alone. She just doesn't get that he is rude and she deserves someone so much better. I believe her problem with not leaving him is because they have been together for three years and she knows that he is madly in love with her and wouldn't want anyone else. So, is that it? Do you know he loves you so much and you'd feel bad to leave him? Do you just not want to go out and find someone else worth your time and love? Maybe you are just as off point as he is when it comes to the future. There are a lot of things when it comes to this and to answer your question, yes. Love is very blind. It can make you do the craziest things, like staying with a guy who you know isn't worth it. Do what's best for you, do what makes you happy and will make you want to be in love.
Good luck.
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believe it or not, the same thing has happened to me, i figured out the reason i couldnt break up with him was because i felt like he was so in love with me, and then i also felt kind of bad, because he was the kind of guy that would probably nmot find another girlfriend anytime soon,but the further in the relationship i went, i knew that he wasnt the guy for me, and i could do a lot better, what i did was i told him the truth, i said that i would rather be friends, and that he is a great friend, and that i didnt like him as much not as i did then, and he accepted it, and we are still friends today.
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Your question leads my mind to question you. You say that your boyfriend isn't on point but where are you? Are you on point? Have you done what it takes to become self sufficient and independent or are you planning on your boyfriend making arrangements for all of that and you're just going to ride his coat tail?
Frankly, I think you need to focus on yourself and your future. Once you know where you're headed and going in that direction, you will know whether this is the right guy for you or whether you need to move along.
Frankly, when I read your question, it isn't put together well, the sentences are run on sentences, etc. and I'm wondering... are you from another country? Is English your second language? If so, then I can understand why your question would be written poorly but if not then it seems to me that you are finding fault with someone else when you should be looking at your own abilities, or lack thereof.
What is it about you that makes you feel you deserve better? I'm not saying that you don't, but if you can't even write out a sentence correctly, I have to wonder where you get off critiquing others.
My advice to you is to work on you and let the rest will fall into place.
Good luck,
Jada
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