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is my daughter obsessed with me?
Our family was staying overnight at friends, and we all just crashed in the livingroom. I ended up between my teen daughter and son. During the night she kept really snuggling up to me and holding me tight. I would push her away and turn her around, and then she took my hand and placed it on her boob. I pull my arm away, and put it out far. This kept happening over and over. At one point I awoke to feel her body quivering and she is rubbing her legs together on me/beside me, and she had put my hand on her boob again. I pushed her legs away from me to get her to stop and placed her hands on her belly. I got up and went outside, had a smoke to try and figure out wtf was happening. Came back in and fell asleep for couple of hours on the floor with my son. after we were all up, and finished eating she was jumping on me, in my lap, ticckling and clinging to me. Calmed her down, and she sat on my legs. She placed her hand under my nose, and asked me to smell. It was sex smell. I said "what is that?", " nothing" she says.
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How old is she exactly? Sometimes, I do things in my sleep without realizing it. One time, my friend slept over and she was sleeping next to me and I kept moving close to her & that sort of thing. But, when I woke up and she told me about it, I was dreaming about a boy. She might not realize she is even doing it. Were you not around when she was growing up or something? Maybe she doesn't understand the difference between a father and another male..? I don't know, I think it depends on how old she is too. If she is 13 & under, I'd just watch her behavior towards you & make sure she is aware that you are the father. If she is 14& over, I'd consider taking her into seeing someone. That isn't proper behavior, and she should know better. Also, maybe she doesn't get a lot of attention & feels the need to get you to pay attention to her in some way.
I hope everything works out for you.
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Your daughter needs therapy, She needs it now.
You and your wife need to sit her down and discuss as a family that this behaviour is NOT okay. It is very innapropriate and unacceptable.
You need to step up to the plate and talk to her
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