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do i love him.
okay, there is this boy. We have been on and off for a while and were really close; we hug, text, flirt but were only just mates. we hes not around i think about him, i wait for him to text me, i have had dreams about him and i get tingles when he talks to me. he doesnt treat me like any other girl, makes me feel speacil. the only problem is, he used me once (asked me out when he didnt have feelings for me) and he also flirts with my best friend even though he hates her.
he said he liked me, and even tryed telling me he loved me.. but he wasnt direct about it (he dont like talking about his feelings AT ALL.) so what should i do.
i also like someone else,,, but not as strongly as my ex.
14/f
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Forget this dude. He is no good. I speak from experience i am not a woman scorned i just know men. Men are selfish people at times. you said your self he's used you before don't walk into the same trap again. When people show you who they really are the firstime belive it. Don't make up a story and belive what you want to belive.
thats the thing about girls we tend to like the bad boy or the boy that doesn't treat us right. I know you feel tingles and you love getting tesxt messages and all that other crap but seperate yourself from all that stay away for a while and you'll get over him. save yourself the drama.
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I feel like only you can no. This sounds weird and may not be what you were looking for as to an answer, but it is how it is. Everyone feels love differently. I've never felt it, but I think it should be when you see the person: if the world were to stop and you would be okay with how you are feeling for the rest of your life. Or if seeing them one last time would be enough to complete your life if you were to die tomrrow. I know this is very fairytale-y but I think that it does exist. Maybe not in the way I discribed but I don't think you would be able to say you still like like 3 people. If you were in the phase where you knew it was love etc etc. then that would be okay. But I am talking about when you don't know what these feeling is. I don't think thats okay because you need to like this person more than anyone. And I don't think you do.-Just by the fact that you mentioned other people. If you really did feel love you would not even deem it important to mention people and you would just mention the bond/times you've shared with him.
Hope I helped!
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