me and my boyfriend have been fighting alot lately. we talked about a break, but then realized that we'd both be very, very uncomfortable with it. we want to do something, but we're not to sure how to fix it.
any ideas?
sml111992 answered Tuesday July 13 2010, 11:31 am: maybe you guys should hang out with friends instead of each other for like a week its like a break but you stil would be talking to each other you both need a break from eachother its obvious that you need one but with out having a break where you guys dont talk your stil going out but just giving time for one another to get lovey again. a month ago me and my boyfriend were fighting a lot and i had the oppurtuinty to go to maryland for a week so i did i thought it would be good for the both of us that we didnt see eachother for a little while and i needed a break too. but i loved him and didnt want that akward oh yah we had a break so i thought it would be okay to talk to this dude... breaks just dont work when you both agree on it you know what i mean. we still talked and texted and i ended up missing him like crazy and he missed me and when i got back we were all better it worked sometimes when your with someone you just need a break from each other but dont say it. you both know you need to just be by yourselves for a litle while and when you really want to see eachother then see eachother. [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
orphans answered Tuesday July 13 2010, 11:27 am: talk about what get's you two in arguments, and be honest! you guys like each other (since you wanna be around him all the time)actually take a break. see how it affects you. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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