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my friend mom dislikes me (NEED ANSWER ASAP)


Question Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 3:19 pm

My cousin pranked call my bestfriends aunt phone and my number showed up on her caller i.d. My bestfriend's mom called me and started yelling and cussing me out for no reason. I tried explaining I didn't call but she would not listen. I believe they pressed charges againstt me im not really shure. My bestfriend wanna come ova and i have to suck up and apoligize to her mom but im scared. I hate rejection so im worried she wont accept my apology what shud i do? O BY THE WAY PLEASE ANSWER IMMEDIATELY I HAVE TO CALL TODAY AND IM NERVOUS WHAT SHALL I DO TO OVERCOME MY NERVOUSNESS..?~~

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solidadvice4teens answered Friday July 2 2010, 11:01 pm:
Trust me you would know if they pressed harassment charges against you. It's not going to happen because they can't prove who made the actual call even if they suspect it's you.

Anyways, the way I see it is that it's your cousin's problem and not yours. You should explain to your parents what has happened here and how people are angry when you didn't do it.

Tell your parents that your cousin is responsible and you had no knowledge of what she did until you got blamed.

They'll handle it for you. In fact, you ought to suggest to them that they make her go and apologize to the people she offended face to face and put this all to rest.

If they seem unwilling to do that then I would march your cousin down there yourself and ask to speak to the offended parties and clear things up. Your cousin owes you for the amount of grief she's caused. She and not you needs to learn lessons regarding her actions and their effects.

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gr8fruit answered Tuesday June 29 2010, 7:32 pm:
Hey there,
I don't think they would press charges against you for "prank calling" their house.. I'm not sure if they can even do that. Whatever you do, do not try to call their house; they won't be likely to answer a call where they do not want to talk to the person on the other end. Try not to be nervous, breath, relax, tell yourself you can do it, and go over to her house (if they live close). You need to tell her it wasn't you that did it. If she doesn't listen the first time, write an apology letter, ding her doorbell, and hand it to her. If she doesn't take it, slip it into the side of her door/somewhere she can find it quick.
If your friend wants to come over, you could try and have her explain what happened. Her Aunt might listen to her if she explains the situation. She will accept your apology, even if it doesn't happen to be the first time, it will be the second or third. She can't hold it against you forever. She will listen eventally. Gather up your strength and try. Breath, and it will be okay <3

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