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I dont know whats wrong with me
Ok im 18/female i hate saying this because it makes me feel like im talking about my man behind his back but last night i was trying to wake my man up so that we can go to bed and i tryed to get him up like 3 times and then he told to shut the fuck up like after that and i told him dont tell me that and he said it again maybe 3 more time and i kept saying dont say that and then he got up and pushed me with his chess and said what you going to do about it and walked away in the bedroom then later after i stoped crying i went in the room and we talked but when i thought he was going to tell me hes sorry he told me to give him a blowjob and he pulled his pants down its was dark so the whole time i was doing it i was crying it felt like i just got used he acked like it never happend so the questen is why do i feel like this we have been together for 6 years and plan to marry also i told him this morning and he said hes sorry and hes not useing me and he loves me! so why do i feel this way still sorry so long please help me!!! anybody!!!!
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He doesn't love you, He doesn't respect you and most of all he is mean to you. Guys that love someone do not treat them like that. That is abuse and it is very wrong. I agree with Adviceman you need to move out. Men who abuse woman will say anything to get what they want, Here he said he was "sorry" and then wanted you to give him a blow job? About the whole marriage part, You are too young to be thinking about marriage. Most of all, You don't want to marry someone like that, He is an asshole. You deserve so much better than that, Someone who is going to treat you the way you should be treated. I don't care what this jerk says or "demands" for this matter you are not his slave. You need to move out and put your focus on you. Your happiness is NOT with him and he doesn't deserve you. 6 years is along time but time heals everything, I was in an abusive relationship for 5 years and I grew the will power to move on and it was the best choice I have ever made.
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
You are 18 and have been with this guy for 6 years which means you were 12 when you met. You did not say how old you boyfriend is but from what you say he sounds immature regardless of his numerical age.
My frank opinion based on the little you have written is; 1. You are too young to get married. 2. You are too young to even be living with someone. 3. You should be experiencing other men and having more worldly experiences and maturing as a single person before settling down with another. There may be good reason why you have chosen to live with this person rather than at home with your parents or on your own. If there is you have not told us about those reasons and I can only base my advice on what you have written.
My advice is you move out, either move back in with you parents, get a place of your own or find a place you can share with a friend. You need to experience what dating other men is like. Not all men are like your current boyfriend. You can continue to date your current boyfriend but he should date you to earn your love and respect.
You should also be enrolled in College, either a Community College or a 4 year College. I today’s world a High School or GED Diploma does not open many employment doors. The doors that are open are low wage back breaking jobs of the type that end as fast as they start. For whatever reasons you are in the position you find yourself in, it is my feeling you can do better for yourself. It will be easier on you to find that out now than say ten years from now when you find him cheating on you. I’m not saying he will but based on what you have written he fits the profile.
Good luck, I hope I have helped.
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For him to demand oral sex without you agreeing to it is wrong! From how you're describing him, I can't see why you're with him. He DID use you and he sounds selfish. Rethink why you're still with him because to an outsider, he sounds like he's no good!
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