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omg i can't take thiss anymore
19/f i have a controlling/crazy/abusive family. I know no one is perfect especially not me, but my family is driving me insane. My parents are so controlling. All they do is fight with each other and not only that they are so rude to me. My mom for example brings things up from like years ago, and i notice whenever we're out and about she'll say something rude, and she won't stop. Not only that she's always asking me if I've eaten anything and if i tell her no she'll start yelling at me. I am getting so sick of it because really im 19 now and it's none of her damn business if i eat or not. My dad is crazy. he came from an abusive home. He gets mad so easily that i don't even know where to start. If i don't do things there way they'll yell and scream at me. Once it was because i didn't want to clean my room (my drawers) the way my mom wanted me to and she started creaming at me, be cause i get an attitude. And my dad was yelling at me, and i was so s cared that i thought he was going to hurt me so i ended up hurting him and they put me in the garage. So basically my parents are psycho who just lecture me all the time about what i should and shouldn't do. For example it's summer and i don't have a job, I've been looking for one, and my mom of course starts telling me i need to read books. I really don't like reading. I like doing sudoku puzzles but my mom says its for people who have nothing better to do. And she starts telling me that she has a college degree or whatever so she can do it in her spare time but i can't. I really don't know what to do anymore, i've been seeing a therapist and my parents were too but they stopped. All she does is sit there and tells me oh im sorry. Or she'll tell me whenever my mom says something to me to try and not say anything. I've tried that and it's difficult, but when i do i stay mad. Seeing a therapist isn't helping since all she does is sit there and says well you do have control over the situation, and blah blah just do what your parents want because i can't live my own life. So yeah and no only that she tells me i can't control what my parents say, and i can't move because i don't have a job and even if i did get a minimum wage job i won't be able to live on my own. And i really wish i could get along with my parents better but they're so stupid sometimes. This whole thing is stressing me out and making me depressed to the point where i start eating less and i just don't feel like living anymore because i can't live my own life. I don't know what to do anymore. please help!!
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Ok first of all your 19 get out of there if there driving you crazy theres no cant in there try and get a room mate if there no hope they can help you with the bills
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