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why I am I her friend?
Help I need advice. One of my best friends we will call her Jen, is very rude sometimes. She will say things in round about ways that are very hurtful. For instance: We had a neighbor steal something from us that I had not noticed missing for a year. I had talked to the neighbor and Jen said the neighbor must have thought i was a real dumb ass for not seeing it was missing after a year/ Also the last time we all went out she was very attacking of me from my perfume to my religion. Its also the language She told my friend that her daughter was gonna grow up to be a real #@! like hers. My friends daughter is 7. what bothers me is that i feel like i dont trust her because she later throws up mean things because this is how she really feels.. The dumb comment happened today I am really hurt because I am far from dumb. And if that the way she feels about me why I am I her friend
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Hey,
I believe you are her friend because you know she is a good person inside, you have expirienced good things in the past with her, and you know you can help her when she may need it. You are a good friend and so when you see her acting this way your natural emotions tell you to help the situation.
Tell her how you feel when she says mean things, not just to you but to others as well. Let her know that it hurts and you would appreciate it if she could be a little nicer to everyone. You are far from dumb and you should let her know that as well. Sure, we all have our faults, but that doesn't mean she should pick on them. Once she knows, she should lay off the bad comments. I am glad you are her friend, its people like you that can help others see the good in life <3
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I think your her friend because somewehere deep inside you feel shes a good friend and despite all that she says she must be but if you dont like the things she says or just dont like being around her then tell her how you feel and if she continues to attack you then tell her you cant be friends with her i think thats the only way to get through this situation. Good luck :)
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