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If you were me would you..?
I have a friend that is nice,good listener, be there for you when you need her,caring and good at keeping secrets, but the thing is she gossips and talks about people she doesnt like. Do you think i can trust her? I'am confused.
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i am very much like your friend. she only gossips and talks about people becuase she feels close to you. i only tell poeple things when either im not friends with the person who it is aobut or dont feel that it is a big deal. if shes your friend she will know that your secret is worth keeping .just make sure u make it clear that your are trustting her and that the secret is something your only telling her because you think she can handle it. the gossipers ae usually not the ones who end up stabbing you in the back. if anything it means she is true about who she is and i think its definatly possible to trust her.
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If her gossiping bothers you then you need to confront her about it. If it were me, I would wondering of whether she talks badly about me when I'm not around...As I don't like people who go around bad mouthing other people because it portrays them as a two faced liar.
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