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why am i acting this way?
me and my friend got close this year, and we are so comfortable with each other and joke around a lot but recently our play arguments turned into something serious and we started arguing seriously and we were getting arguing because we didn't take other seriously when both of us talks about something serious but its mostly me, she confronted me that i hurt her feelings a lot and i started to become defensive and i acted like i was right and keep attacking her because i didn't want the blame on me so i blamed her i know it is horrible and we were both getting mad at each other but we forgive each other easily and we're okay now but this time it seems like its really serious,and the thing is she thinks that im acting different towards her like i dont joke around as much as i do. The truth is when she confronted me i was hurt knowing that i hurt her feelings a lot and now i take her seriously because i don't to want to hurt her anymore, im afraid to lose her but i just don't know what to do anymore and i keep making the same mistakes over and over again, because she's too nice so i feel like im keeping my distance from her but im just being polite to her and i dontwant to disrespect her again and if i do joke around with her i know i will hurt her feelings again by taking it too far what should i do? when she confronted me i was really hurt and sad knowing i disappointed her.
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I've done that a few times. just talk to her about it and make sure you apologize :) if you're really good friends then she'll forgive you and you can just be yourself with her.
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You need to tell her how you feel get everything all out in the open talk to her she won't know unless you do tell her that when she confronted you..you were hurt knowing that you hurt
her feelings also disappointed and sad now you take her seriously because you don't want to hurt her anymore tell her your afraid of loosing her & you keep making the same mistakes which is why your keeping your distance and being polite to her i think your acting this way because your afraid of hurting her and also loosing her as well(:
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