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Acceptable behavior and nonacceptable behavior
Is it right for a girl you are going on dates with but isn't your gf to makeout with one of her guy friends once while you are both contiuously going on dates?
Also is dating multiple people at once acceptable while not being a couple with anyone but going on dates with one person over and over again weekly?
How do you convince someone to get tied down and realize a relationship isn't bad and that while they may lose their freedoms it's worth it? Should one even try and convince them of this?
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If you two aren't dating then no it is not wrong for her to see other people. HOWEVER, I would probably start to guess whether she is really into serious commitments. If she makes out with other men while she goes on dates with you (Although you are not dating) I might start to get the hint that maybe she doesn't want to settle down and rethink about whether I want to keep taking her out...
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If you are not a committed couple, then she is free to do what she likes.
However, if it's unacceptable to YOU, either ask her to commit or stop dating her.
There is no sure fire way to convince someone to commit if they don't want too. You are even less like to convince her if she is utilizing her freedoms so actively by making out with her pals... You can try. There is the odd time when someone puts their foot down and insist on commitment or nothing, their partner might rise to occasion. But that is the exception not the rule.
Decide what is acceptable to you. Ask her is she can provide you with that. If she can't, and you can't accept any less, stop dating her.
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K the answer to your first question yes because technically shes not your gf so she can do whatever until you do ask her to go out with out ask your gf. The answer to your second question like i said she isnt your gf so she can do whatever and even though its not right to lead on the guy by going out with him weekly shes entitled to do whatever she wants its her life. And lastly you cant really convince someone to tie down unless they really want to meaning you can sit them down and talk to them and try to convince them but most times its a waste of time for both you and her.
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