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how to get over a guy that you REALLY like that is a friend and an ex?


Question Posted Monday May 3 2010, 11:16 pm

So there is this guy that I have liked for the past 5 years (i am 20 now). Me and him dated back in high school (when i was 15) and ended up breaking up because of drama with friends and never getting to see each other. We just started to hang out again about a year and a half ago (as friends) and as soon as i hung out with him again, i fell head over heels for him again. i have already told him how i feel about him and just recently he acted on it and told me a lot of things that i guess he had been holding back. well a lot of drama got started with my mother (i drove an hour and a half to see him knowing i was going to lose my car when i got home because i had no intentions of coming home until the next night) and right as i was getting ready to head home the cops showed up at his house to tell me to go home. i told him that i was completely embarrassed by what she did and he said it was no big deal. but since then, i have tried to call him and when someone picked up his house phone and heard me ask for him ... they hung up and nobody ever called me back. as i was told by my mom (who supposedly spoke with him today) he had told her that he didnt even like me and that he found me annoying and the only reason he wanted me to come see him was because i had a car and money. but some of it doesnt make sense from what he told me and his actions this past weekend. i have cried about this for hours now and dont know how else to deal with it. how do i just let him go when i like him sooooooooooooooooooo much?!?!?! i am so confused as to what im suppose to do at this point and really need help as to what i should do.

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sunshine1232 answered Wednesday May 5 2010, 10:42 pm:
You deserve to be treated better & not be called annoying or be told that he doesn't like you just
by him saying that means things weren't meant to be between you two he was using you for your car & money you need to let him go & don't continue to waste your time on him there's other decent boys out there who will treat you with respect & treat you like you deserve to be treated you didn't deserve to be treated the way you did things weren't meant to be you can't change what's happened what's done is done(:

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PaperHeartsX3 answered Tuesday May 4 2010, 10:44 pm:
Hm, Yeah that is weird.
I would say give it a couple days and try to call again.
Do he have facebook//myspace? try to contact him on there and just ask whats going on.
He at least needs to tell you what is up.
Is the car yours that you used or no? Because if it is your car... Your mother can not control you. You are over 18, and legal.

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