Once upon a time, there were two music lovers; Matt and Claire. They were on the way home from camp on a bus, and Matt turned to claire and shyly asked for her number. She gave it to him, and they soon after became friends. Their relationship became very strong, and they were best friends. One day they were on a trip, and Matt realized he had feelings for Claire. He never left her side during the band trip. At the end of the trip, he couldn't take it. He wanted to ask her out. He asked her best friend, Anna, if he should ask her. Unfortunatly, claire had feelings for another boy. Anna told Matt this, and his heart was broken. It took a while for his feelings to subside for her, he almost asked her out again, but wasn't brave enough. He gave up, and as his feelings slipped away, so did their friendship. Matt dated other girls, but Claire stayed single. She always had oppurtunities for relationships, but she couldn't find the right one. Then she realized it was because she had feelings for Matt. She was in love with him for such a long time. She knew that Matt didn't love her anymore, and she knew it would be better to get over him, but she couldn't do it. She had never felt feelings for other boys than she did for Matt. Matt and claire became best friends again, and claire fell deeper and deeper in love. Matt still dated other girls, but never felt a real connection. As Matt was with another girl, he started to act differently around claire. He missed her when she went on vacations, and always wanted to be with her.
This is a true story, and yes I just poured my heart out to you strangers.
I'm Claire, and my best friend is Matt.
I don't know what to think, I don't know what to think, I don't know how to act, I don't know what to say, I'm at a total loss right now.
To the people who decide whether it's worth it putting this on the site-I'm giving you my heart here. This is my lifes love story.
Help.
-M
Additional info, added Saturday April 24 2010, 4:04 pm: The reason we're not going out is because I'm not exactly an outgoing person. I could never ask out a guy. I think he already knows I like him, but he's too shy to ask me out. I just need an opinion here-it's pretty personal, so try to think about how much this means to me. All I want to know is what you think :]. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? OhMyLucyDarling answered Friday April 23 2010, 6:57 pm: Guys are not going to wait around, They have better things to do then to wait around for someone who doesn't know how they really feel. You had your chance but you decided that you didn't like him back, Now that he has chose to move on you suddenly decide that you have feelings for him. Well, wait until he is available, If you try to ruin a relationship he currently is in he may end up resenting you for it. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
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