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an 8th grader is in love with me..
19f.
so last sunday i was at my two cousins birthday party. one is in 6grd and the other is in 8grd.. it was at a hotel. so i went out in the pool area to talk to my two cousins and ended up sitting down and then one of my cousins friends who is in 8th grade came and sat down w/us. i started talking to him, just being nice. well then i ended up leaving and everyone tells me how he thought i was so hot and how he wants to marry me .. hahaa young boys!! well now it's my other cousins birthday this saturday and we're going over to his house and my aunt texted me today asking if i was going and i said yeah are you guys? and she is like yeah we are! and i think we're going to bring mikey too! (the boy who has the biggest crush on me) i told my parents and they think its the funniest thing but i know i'm going to keep getting crap for it.
my question is .. how do i act around him? he texted me, because my little cousin gave him my number and was talking dirty to me .. 8th grade pervs! and so now i feel as though it will be awkward when i see him! i don't want to crush the poor kid and just ignore him but i also don't want to give him the wrong idea. suggestions? thanks!:)
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Just be mature about it. I dont know how you handled the situation when he texted you dirty stuff but if you handled the situation then and told him you are too old for him and it is inappropriate then I would just act normal around him like you did at the last party. If you ignored the text messages I would politely tell him or your cousin that him doing that was very inappropriate and cannot happen again. Just be polite and mature. And dont feel akward, if anything he should feel akward, not you. He is the one who made a fool of himself to someone how many years older. Just dont lose sleep over it. He's just a kid. Good Luck!
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Are you kidding?
The worst thing you could do is treat this with kit gloves. Put him in his place, call him a little boy at some point, and tell him that if he sends you any more screwed up messages you'll let his parents see them so he can get in trouble like the kid he is.
Little boys grow up into bigger boys until a woman trains us into men. Start him early, hopefully it'll be one less douchebag in a few years.
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Before you even confront Mikey, you need to confront your cousin. It was wrong of your cousin to give out your number without your permission. Make sure that you're stern, clear and that you mean it.
Anyways, when it comes time to confront Mikey, just take him aside. Tell him that you're really flattered that he likes you, & thinks you're pretty, but he's too young for you and you just see him as a friend. Tell him that you guys can remain friends, but that's all it'll ever be. By doing that, you can let him know that there's no chance of a relationship, but that you can still remain in contact.
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You confront him about it, You are the adult and he is the child.
You need to be upfront and explain to him that it isn't going to happen, How it is offensive to you that he is speaking to you in an inappropriate manner. If you are not direct then he might get the wrong impression. If I were in your shoes I would keep acting like you are not interested, Reassuring him that you are an adult by showing no interest and talking in a mature manner. Ask him to stop texting you and if he doesn't you will put a block on his calls. Being direct and standing your ground should get the point across, You need to be direct. Ignoring him and acting nice is not how you let someone know that you are not interested. I would also have a talk with your cousin and let him/her know that you didn't appreciate how they gave out your number without your permission.
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