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my boyfriend and his cautious ways
the other night I was with my boyfriend and we were laying on his couch watching a movie when this came to mind: we have been going out for around 6 months and haven't made out yet and we hardly ever kiss. I am the kind of girl that likes the guy to make the first move, and what I am wondering is; why is he being so cautious or as my friends say "like a freezer"?
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He's probably nervous and doesn't want to offend you in any way or make you feel like you have to rush things. So maybe try to talk to him and let him know that you'd like to kiss more, and that he doesn't have to be as cautious as he has been.
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the reason he doesnt want to make his first move might be because hes nervous to mess things up. you might be very special to him so much that he doesnt want things to collapse and i feel you when you say u dont like to make the first move i am that way too but sometimes its okey to be the first one to make the move it shows that youre in controll which is okey , you should try it you might be surprised. or you shoud give him 2 more weeks to make his move if he doesnt you should consider making the first move yourself and if you do.. when you finish ask him why didnt he make the first move but not im a crontrolive angry serious type of way..but in a relaxing smiling playful way..that way he wont think youre out your mind you shoud do it after you guys finish that way you stay in topic and it doesnt become a random question ..well hope this helps-lulu.
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It could be a number of things. He could be nervous, afraid that you'll reject him. Or, he could just not be fully comfortable with affection. As weird as it is, some people are like that. You can talk to him about it, or you can just go ahead and make the first move. I know you like the guy to do that, I'm like that, too, but sometimes guys wait for girls to make the first move. So, if you're both sitting there waiting for the other one to do something, it'll never happen. Go for it.
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He's nervous. Probably just not real comfortable making a move. Don't sweat it to much. He'll come around
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