i feel im mature for my age.i love advice i feel it is a persons best friend when it comes to life and its reasoning.
Gender: Female
Location: queens
Occupation: highschool
Age: 16
Member Since: April 19, 2010
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the other night I was with my boyfriend and we were laying on his couch watching a movie when this came to mind: we have been going out for around 6 months and haven't made out yet and we hardly ever kiss. I am the kind of girl that likes the guy to make the first move, and what I am wondering is; why is he being so cautious or as my friends say "like a freezer"? (link)
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the reason he doesnt want to make his first move might be because hes nervous to mess things up. you might be very special to him so much that he doesnt want things to collapse and i feel you when you say u dont like to make the first move i am that way too but sometimes its okey to be the first one to make the move it shows that youre in controll which is okey , you should try it you might be surprised. or you shoud give him 2 more weeks to make his move if he doesnt you should consider making the first move yourself and if you do.. when you finish ask him why didnt he make the first move but not im a crontrolive angry serious type of way..but in a relaxing smiling playful way..that way he wont think youre out your mind you shoud do it after you guys finish that way you stay in topic and it doesnt become a random question ..well hope this helps-lulu.
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Every day I wake up, I have to think about a reason why not to commit suicide. I am married with children. I love my wife and my kids, but, the only reason I havent' commited suicide, is because I feel guilty about the financial burden it would cause. I have a spinal chord disease and every day is a struggle with unbearable pain and constant medication. I feel my wife is getting tired of me and my illness. My illness has caused me to lose my job and my home, I am bankrupt, I don't have a job or an income. What do I have to live for???? I just don't know what to do or what purpose there is to my life. I really wish God could just give me the strength to do it, so that I don't continue to suffer anymore. My relationship with my wife has deteriorated to the point where she doesn't respect me and, she's probably cheating on me...I wouldn't blame her if she is....Who wants to be with a cripple??? No one does. I really need to hear the right words, so that I can just get it done!!! I don't want to live anymore, but I just don't feel like I have the stregth to go through with it. I need to find a way so that I can do it without feeling guilty. Can you tell me how, please? (link)
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Listen okey! i dont know you but i know that you must be a great person inside. for gods sake you have kids you cant give up on life. if you dont want to live for you live for your kids and just because youre cripple doesnt mean your life ends. you have so much ahead of you and you shouldnt give up on yourself because you are so much better than that. you have to feel confident to know that you have a purpose in this life even when you feel you dont. dont be angry . maybe this situation happened because god is putting you to a test. to see if you can really handle life. please dont give up. i know it must be hard and i cant imagine how much. but think of how much your kids would miss you and how devastated they would feel if youre gone. you cant do this to the ones you love and love you. try talking to someone about how you feel face to face it might help. hope everything gets better-lulu.
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