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Almost two years and nothing
Hey Melissa so I'm 16/f and me and this guy have been talking for almost two years. We started freshman year texting (he texted me although I never gave him my number) and once we did it became awkward in school. Like he stopped saying hi to me in the halls and he wouldn't come over to my lunch table anymore, etc. We never hung out because he's a football player and I'm in plays so we don't have many friends in common. We did end up being at the same party but we were only there together for an hour because he had football lifting. After that party that was in early July he texted me a few times after but we stopped talking for 6 months. My friend had a party in January n I asked one of my guy friends to bring him n so he came. We ended up talking most of te night and I even kissed him on a dare. He texted me the day after and we've been texting at least 4 or 5 times every week, writing each other notes in school, and having quick convos in the halls. The problem is he's still prude and has never even had a gf before and I think he has no clue what to do. He's the sweetest kid and i'd really like to go out wit him but there's no way I could ever ask him out. Any advice?
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Well it sounds to me like hes not going to take the first step.
Why do you think you could never ask him out? I know it seems kind of scary but the only scary part is actually getting the question out. Or you could just ask him to hang out one on one, not even like a date. It could just be a chance for you two to get to know each other in an environment where your not surrounded by other people. And texting can be so misleading. Its better to talk face to face.
Personally I think you should ask him to hang out.
Or if your to scared to do that, and you want to stick with the texting, just ask him how he feels about you in a text. You could do it in a haha way, or you could ask him seriously.
I really hope it all works out for you, but just remember, your 16 :) Theres going to be lots of guys for a long time.
Good Luck!
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