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shy or not
so what do you guys think is a good personality? and how do you know if someone is boring or really just shy? I can be talkitive and fun but when i go to my youth i am not really outgoing or really show my personality. ive been with my youth for a few months and i live like 35 minutes away from them so i dont really hang with them. I feel like I have a good personality at times but then at other times im just really quiet and people that i want to show my personality dont see the talkitive side just the shy and quiet side. It seems like the people at my youth think i dont have good conversation but yet when i with people in my town and school im really talkitive. and i have other friends that fit right in but i dont seem to. well what do you think?
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Hi :)
I know how you feel. I'm extremely friendly and talkative once someone shows interest in getting to know me as a friend. But I'm really shy, so it's hard for me to start conversations with just anyone, unless I'm forced to in school lol. Usually what happens with us shy people is we either get seen as an outcast and loner, or people come up to us and ask us why we don't talk haha.
Just because you are quiet for the most part doesn't mean you have a bad personality. It's hard to get people to come and talk to you though, because some people feel just as awkward as we do starting a random conversation. How about taking someone from town with you to youth? You guys can laugh and be your usual selves and once everyone in your youth group sees that, maybe they'll say 'WOW, she's so funny and talkative!'
So I would suggest taking a friend you're really cool with to youth group. Hope I helped! And don't worry, things will get better.
Uniq :)
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There is not just one kind of good personally. A good personally can be formed in diffrent ways. The thing is for you is that your more comfortable in areas that your more familiar with. Its not really being shy its just more difficultfor you to be in areas that your not familiar with. You just need to learn how to broaden your horizons and figure out how to adjust to change.
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