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I got him! But...
So, I've been friends with this guy for three almost four years, he and his friend are my two best friends in the whole world. Well, I broke up with my boyfriend for a year and I recently started liking this guy again, I liked him before I started dating my ex. Well The other day we were hanging out I was playing with my sisters phone and I read a text from him that said he liked her [I know I shouldn't be snooping] I got really sad but I was dealt with it. Well two days later me him and our other best friend went up to an amusement park because they both got jobs there and one of them had orientation. Well we waited for an hour for him to finish up and he kissed me. I was so happy. We had a camping trip coming of for spring break so I was pretty excited. Our friend came outside after orientation and caught us kissing! He pretended like he didn't but he told me later he saw us. Well I was so happy I liked a guy and he liked me too! :] Well the camping trip came and we shared a tent and while I was falling asleep he woke me up and asked me out. I was so excited. When I got home I went and told my sister. She laughed so hard then said "He's a slut he kissed me like three days ago." I had never been more upset, but him asking me out counts for something right? Well since then everyone has been giving me crap about it. He came over and my brother came downstairs and said. How do you like your sister's sloppy seconds, my mom said she doesn't like him because he kissed my sister then me, and my sister said she doesn't even like him so i shouldn't care. Do I have a reason to care. It makes me so upset :[ I don't know what to do.
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I honestly wouldn't go out with him. Do you really want to be with someone who a few days ago was macking on your sister?
It's not fair to you, and he probably doesn't like you. He may either be desperate for a girlfriend so he'll resort to anyone, OR he's leading you on for his own sick pleasure. Either way, it's not exactly genuine and you'll probably end up getting hurt. Stay away.
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the fact that he kissed your sister and then you, is a bad sign. This starts your relationship off on a bad foot, and will cause later problems. Talk to him about it and find were he is on a mental level. By the sounds of things, he isnt ready for a commited reletionship, and you shouldnt start a relationship your not 100% certain of. Remember there are plenty other guys out there, dont waste your tears on just one.
good luck
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