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talking with exgirlfriend
Should I be worried that my husband still talks to his ex-girlfriend? I am trying to be okay with it but it still bothers me knowing that he talks with his ex. Mostly because she tends to call when I am at work and recently I woke up in the middle of the night and he was talking to her. It was almost 3 in the morning. There is a time change so it wasnt that late where she lives but still. My husband assures me that he is doing nothing wrong and that i need to be more understanding. Am I wrong for worrying or getting upset with him everytime he talks with her? He tells me what their conversation was about and tells me when he talks to her.
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It certainly would raise suspicion, I understand that you are trying to be okay with the fact that he is in contact with his ex, However there should be a limitation to how much and why on heavens earth is he talking with his ex girlfriend at 3 in the morning!?! Something is suspicious here, Sounds like he may be hiding something from you and isn't telling the full truth. As I always said, Never have contact with the ex not only is it a load of drama but half the time it leads to cheating and lies. This is the part where you step up the plate, It's you or the ex, Don't be that woman that gets stuck in the middle. You are not as stupid as you look and don't let him play mind games with you. No, You are not being controlling you are laying down the ground rules, Ex is out of the picture. Listen, The fact is he is in a relationship and he is committed to you, Here is where your husband is wrong he is talking to his ex girlfriend, He is talking to her late at night. Talk to him, Let him know how it's making you feel and let him know that you are not going to tolerate any sneakiness and that if he wants to play mind games with you then he needs to make up his mind it's her or you.
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