I went out with my friends, and one guy was dancing with my friend. I didn't know that she was into him- i just thought she was having fun dancing. The same guy approached me later in the night to dance (mostly salsa music, so everyone was dancing), and then, without thinking, I made out with him. Now, I'm concerned my friend is upset at me...well, we don't know each other well, but we did go out. I made some comment about how I couldn't drink the shot that some guys bought all of us, and she said "it's okay, my LOVER drank it for me," she was referring to the same guy. Later in the night as we were saying bye, she seemed nice with me, but I am still concerned that our friendship is at stake, and that she doesn't trust me. What should i do??
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Saturday March 27 2010, 6:33 pm: You should just talk to her about it. Tell her look I know you dont act made at me but I really didnt know you were into him when we had kissed and it wont happen again or something [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
OhMyLucyDarling answered Saturday March 27 2010, 5:41 pm: Well, If you didn't know that she was "into" him then it's really not your fault. If they weren't dating then again it's not your fault. All you can do is wait until she says something to you, Watch her behavior and see if she gives off the cold shoulder like something is bothering her. If so then you approach her and calmly talk to her about how you weren't aware that she had feelings for this guy. She can be mad and upset about it sure, but on the other hand if you didn't know she liked him and they aren't dating well...then she needs to get over herself. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
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