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settling down.
At this point in my life I want a family and I am ready for one. Very Very much. I know that my boyfriend is not ready yet and I completely respect that and am willing to wait until he feels ready. I know it's a joint decision. I never bring it up or try and pressure him. How do I get rid of these intense feelings of wanting a child until hes ready? I have tried to focus on the "cons" and the stressors of having a baby and marriage but it has not in the least altered my feelings. Nothing I try works. It's to the point where I feel stuck at where I am in life. I'm ready to settle down and start a family. So any tips for subsiding the desires would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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My personal opinion, if you were supposed to have a baby right now.. you two would have already gotten pregnant. There is a plan for all of us.. and it'll fall into place when the time is right.. you can't rush it.
Don't tempt fate..
- Your going to want what you want until you get it.. just stay focused on the future and what is to come.. you'll be fine (:
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I'm going through the same thing, I've wanted a baby for quiet some time now. However, Sometimes you just need to realize that the time may not be right for you just yet. I'm glad to hear that you respect your boyfriends wishes, Not all woman these days respect that. Time will come when it's right, You just need to focus on where you are now.
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