i was wondering .. i seem to cum really fast no matter if im masturbauting or having sex. I see guys on pornos lasting so long. How do some guys last longer than other guys? im 17 m btw
Kendra_Berri answered Wednesday March 31 2010, 1:26 am: Never believe a thing you see in porn. Everything is orchestrated, body parts are fake, and nothing about the interaction is natural. So disregard what you've seen completely.
If you can go 7-10 minutes, you're normal. If you're not there yet, you just need practice. While having sex, if you think you're going to ejaculate, pause and take a breather. You'll eventually learn to build some endurance.
LydiaSorrow answered Thursday March 25 2010, 12:45 pm: That's what I was going to say =]
The other thing is that there are a lot of ways you can last longer. If you masturbate you usually aren't wearing a condom where-as during sex the condom will generally make you last a lot longer. During sex if you are straight into the sex you probably will climax quickly, so use lots of foreplay and your partner will most likely do the same. If your partner is teasing you with lots of different things then you can have all of the pleasure without the climax and then when you do have sex it won't feel like as quick as it did before. The other thing is to try out plenty of different positions as some will lead you to climax much sooner than others.
MAK answered Monday March 22 2010, 4:41 pm: The men in porn are picked on their ability to last long (as well as on a larger than average penis size). Also porn is like shooting a movie, they have many takes of the same scenes, and take breaks, which also helps the guy last longer, as well as the environment in which they film in isn't exactly sexual either - they're not with a woman they love, in the privacy of their own bedroom. [ MAK's advice column | Ask MAK A Question ]
karenR answered Monday March 22 2010, 7:07 am: Well age has a lot to do with it. The best way to prolong things is to start thinking of something else when you get close to ejaculation. Takes some practice but most guys are willing to practice a lot. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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