i am engaged to my fiancee and weve been together for 1 1/2 years almost. He recently went to jail and all our converstaions have been good up until now and hes accusing me of cheating on him and leting guys in the car and im telling him theres nobody else i want but him and i love him and he still doesnt believe that im not cheating on him and its just hurting me more cause he doesnt believe or tust me. what should i do?
thelaura answered Monday March 8 2010, 11:06 am: He's locked up, no doubt feeling sorry for himself and doesn't feel safe knowing he can't be there for you, making him think the worst of things, ie, you cheating.
Next time you talk to him, explain how much it hurts to be accused of cheating by someone you love and make it known that you won't be able to tolerate it for much longer. He's your fiance for crying out loud - you two will be married one day and this is NO way to treat one another. Tell him to stop being jealous and focus on the future you two will have.
Hopefully things will get better for you both. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
sunshine1232 answered Monday March 8 2010, 10:20 am: You need to tell your fiance that part of being in
a relationship with someone is being able to trust them and what they say and if you say you didn't cheat on him then he should believe you unless he's got proof of you cheating but otherwise if he doesn't then he shouldn't be accusing you of doing so say by him not believing you & accusing you it's hurting you more and more maybe once he realizes what he's saying is hurting you he'll start believing you and stop with the accusations aganist you(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
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