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no emotion
so i just recently lost my virginity, and i dont feel anything. I didnt like it or dislike it. It just felt like a casual thing. I'm not in a relationship with this guy. I've barely seen him, but we have talked for a long time. I dont feel any regret or sadness or anger.. i dont feel anything.
Is this good or bad? And why do i feel like this?
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I don't see why you should expect to feel hugely altered by the fact that someone put their penis into you. It's only a physical act. I'm just glad you don't feel horribly guilty about it, like a lot of girls do.
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It may seem strange that you've got nothing from loosing your virginity since some people feel it should be with someone you really like however that's not the case with everyone and later in life youmay find someone that feels like love when you have sex but untill then have fun experimenting
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Typically the emotional relationship between the people involved will mirror emotions surrounding sex. The physical aspect of the act can vary of course, but if you have no real emotional attachment to the guy, having sex will not magically create one. It seems like you are ambivalent about your relationship, so it makes sense that your opinion of the sex is also ambivalent.
In short, no worries, smile.
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Hm
I think a lot of people go through the confusing on how they feel after they loose their virginity. When I lost mind (7) yrs ago. I didn't really feel anything either, I think it's confusion. I don't know you or the relationship between the guy but maybe it is because you two have parted to some degree?
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People put way too much emphasis on first times for everything. It really is ridiculous. I felt the same way as you after my first time, though I was in a relationship with the guy. How old are you? My guess is that you were simply just ready. When you do it too young is when you have all these freak outs and crazy emotions.
Beware though.... this may not last forever. For me, when it was over with that guy, it was a little harder for me. I didnt realize that I'd had expectations I guess. You'll probably feel something about it once there's some time distance in there. You'll be fine though. Dont worry about it. Why would you want to feel regret or sadness or anger? lol that's not what it's all about!!
You can only be a secondary virgin if you plan to not have sex again until youre married. Sorry =P
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