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Best friend is not who she used to be.
17/f my best friend changed who she is completely. She used to be really fun and crazy. She likes to party with
me and was hilarious and we had sooo much fun. She recently went anorexic and I think that is why
she is so boring. But now she is like a goody goody. I'm not like trashy or drink a whole lot but sometimes I add a little rum to my pop. I've done this forever and it's never been a big deal to her. The other day I offered her some of my pop and she was like oh my god what's in this are you drinking rum oh my god. Why would you do that. Yeah.. She is the one who got me drinking. Oh this other time I was telling her how I accidentally hit this persons car window thing with my arm. It was already hanging off it just showed like the wires when I hit it and so I left because I was afraid they would blame me. So I tell her this and she is like really, I report people like you. She always says stuff like this and brags ALOT. It's so irritating. What do I do about this?
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Your friend is her own person she could do whatever she chooses i think you should be there for her & support her seeing as she's got a eating disorder people change even though she may have drank in the past & got you into drinking things change you can't really change her she has to be willing to change herself the eating disorder is most likely consuming her life which is why she probably isn't as much fun as she once was i think you should confront her & say it was a accident that you hit the car window and you didn't purposely mean to do it..it was already broken so it wasn't entirely your fault that way she knows the truth be straight
forward with her and be honest don't sugar coat what
you say...that way hopefully she'll get the hint that what she said to you annoyed you
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you really cant do anything? I guess your friend has just chosen a different, more positive path in life. You can either accept it or reject it and stop talking to her. You wanting her to change back to normal would be like her wanting you to change to being like her. i.e. if its the real her, and who she is, then you cant do anything about it. hope i helped :)
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