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He Ignores Me..
Recently, whenever my boyfriend and I are around his friends, I tend to get ignored by him. He has a lot of female friends, and they flirt with him, but he doesn't stop them; he kind of does it back. I don't know what to do! It makes me feel very unappreciated and not important.
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If you feel that way you need to tell him and if he continues you need to drop him. there are millions of guys out there and there is one for you the one who is going to treat you like gold.
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oh wow. we are in like the same situation..
what i did was i told him if he doesnt stop, its over. there is no reason he should be flirting with other girls. the only girl he should want to flirt with or be around all of the time is you. YOUR his girlfriend, they arent. so him making you happy should be his first priority.
but talk to him about it, tell him how it makes you feel and then say something like, "how would you like it if i flirted with all of my guy friends and they flirt back?" if you put him in your shoes, he'll be able to view it more from your perspective and be willing to change.
i know how you feel though. but he might have a reason for doing it.. maybe with every relationship he has been in, the other person didnt care and flirted with other people too.. youre going to have to explain to him that this is wrong and needs to stop. communication is key.
but if he doesnt stop, think about ending it. because that is not fair to you and can lead to things like temptation which can lead to cheating.. and i know you dont want that to happen. and he shouldnt be ignoring you around his female friends.. its just not right. he should be focused on you more than ANYONE else in the room. so talk to him and if he doesnt make an effort to change, really evaluate your relationship and see if its worth staying with him because do you want to feel this way for a long period of time ? .. i hope not, because then youll be miserable, and you deserve to be very happy :]
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
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you need to tell him off! Tell him you dont like the way he's been treating you and if it countines your out of his life for good and you need to tell him that you are tired of the flirting with the girls, being ignored and yo u need it to stop.Or you can so the same thing and se how he likes it! But dont get tyo worked up about it what happenns happens and its all for the best.
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You need to tell your boyfriend sit him down & tell him exactly how you feel communication is key in a relationship he won't know unless you tell him say that whenever you & him are around his friends you tend to get ignored by him and he flirts with his female friends say that you'd like for him to stop & when he does those things it affects you & makes you feel very unappreciated & not important hopefully for your sake once he realizes it's affecting you he'll stop(:
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