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Should i leave him or not?
i'm a 24 years old f and my bf is 40.We've been together for 3 years we were planning to get married in the summer and last week i've found out that he got his ex pregnant.i love him very much a part of me want me to leave and a big part of me is telling me to forgive him.She knows about me, knows that we leaving together.she told me once she'll do anything to destroy our relationship because she don't like me for him.But i feel i'm gonna be miserable and i will never love the baby.when i asked him why he did it he said that because she was bothering him by sending him nasty messages.please tell me what you think i should do?
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Do you trust him? If you don't then I don't advise getting married anytime soon. I have to say that is the lamest excuse for cheating I have ever heard. Is he going to hop into bed with her every time she sends him nasty messages and bothers him in the future? He knocked her up, you have to put up with her being a part of your life for the rest of your life. Can you live with that without it causing suspicion & fighting?
You have a big decision to make. I will advise you NOT to marry him until you are very, very sure he is mature enough to be a husband. Not only was his excuse for cheating a load of BS, he also cheated and didn't bother using a condom. He risked your health/life so an ex would stop bothering him.
A lot to forgive.
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He slept with her for one reason and one reason only. He wanted to. Ditch him. He's a cheat and a liar.
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did he cheat on you?if he did then theres no proof that he wont do it again.do you really want to marry someone that your going to keep having doubts about?i mean are you really going to let this go?everytime you see that baby your going to be reminded by what he did to you.im also assuming that the only reason he told you about this is because his ex is now pregnant.
i dotn think you should stay with him.i mean this nasty cow is going to try ruin things between you and your boyfriend and finally she may win and youll end up getting a divorce.think carefully about this. your alwaqys going to be living in the nightmare now that theres a baby involved.to be honest saying he slept with her because she was bothering him is NOT an excuse!
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