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Is he using me?
Okay so, Ive been dating this guy for a few weeks and things have been great. We are seriously perfect for eachother. He lives 30 minutes away but he told me it didnt bother him, and I have no problem with a long distance relationship.
Well the past two days he hasnt talked to me once, and then this morning he broke up with me. He said it was because the distance was an issue and it sucked that he couldnt see me very often. I reluctantly agreed and accepted that out relationship was over, but we both decided to still be friends.
So tonight he texted me and started being very sexual. He told me that he wanted me, and that it was a bad thing that he wanted me because we werent dating. While we were dating we'd send flirtatious text messages, and thats exactly what he kept doing tonight.
I am very confused. Should I just forget about him? Is it a possibility that we'll get back together? Any advice is appreciated.
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i've been in this exact situation, it isn't fun. 30 minutes can be a make-or-break kind of thing. don't give in to his 'flirting', he probably just wants a girl to be there for him when he wants, but disappear when he doesn't feel the need to have you. that's not fair to you. i'd ignore him, and like the last answer, tell him where to stick it.
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Seems like he still wants a bit of no strings attached fun.
If I were you, I'd tell him where to stick it.
30 minutes isn't exactly far - it's not often you get a boyfriend who lives next door to you, is it?
Travelling a little bit and waiting to see each other adds to the fun and shows you really do care about each other enough to work around it.
Feeding you that ridiculous "distance" nonsense just isn't good enough.
Ask him what the heck he's playing at. Does he want you back? If he says he doesn't know or simply no, forget about him and ignore his silly little texts. and if you do happen to get back with him, just be sure it's right and what you want.. after all, he could do it again.
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yeah he probably is using you. because why would he break up with you, but still have feelings for you?
if he still had strong feelings for you, he would deal with the distance and still be with you.
i think the distance excuse is just an excuse to not be in a relationship, but he still wants to be flirty you (aka use you)
if i were you, just forget about him and tell him that you don't like to be used. and then call it quits. dont be friends with him. because all he is going to do is cause drama and confusion between you 2. tell him to get a life
good luck!
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