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We're all friends and we're all interested....
15/f
I'm currently emotionally/physically involved with a guy I'm extremely interested in and attracted to. He's amazingly sweet and we both are not looking for relationships, just close friends and people to be there for each other. However, as much as I'm completely infatuated with him, I can still recognize when I've become intested in multiple people. His good friend and I happen to be interested in each other as well although we have no physical relationship. I'm content with where I am at the moment and get to be with the people that make me happiest (them) everyday.
If everything's going wonderfully but the friend with which I share a physcial relationship is ultimately doomed to fail, should I be looking ahead and actually work towards a relationship with the other, our friend, his good friend?
I'm unsure of what to do in this situation and would greatly appreciate some advice.
thank you
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Well I know you say and Boy 1 don't want a relationship together but are feeling that empty spot the spot were you want a boyfriend a relationship. If you know that will never happen with boy 1 why keep it. boy 2 isnt just interested in a physical relationship since you two havent done anything physical i think you should try for the relationship with boy 2 and drop the physical relationship with boy 1.
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Are you 15 or 30? Its obvious to me your asking if its ok to hook up with his friend. You say you genuinely care about the guy your with, then leave his friend alone. Not only will you crush him and break his heart but you will leave with his friend. You just need to control your hormones and find someone without stepping on people to get there. No relationship works under those conditions. Respect and Trust is an important ingredient in love which he wont have after he watches what you do to his friend. Trust me on that one.it What kind of guy is he that he would do that to his friend anyway's? You seem like a bright girl.Open your eyes .Look before you leap! Lisa Marie f/40
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