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He is making me crazy! I like him so much...
15/f sophomore
Okay. Well there is this guy I like (lets say he is M). I really like him. He is sweet, funny and cute. Almost perfect. I think he likes me too, but I'm not sure..
He hangs out with the "popular" group, if you can call it that. It's not like I'm not popular because I'm friends with almost everyone in that group, I just don't sit with them during lunch or classes.
Sometimes I think he may like me because he always finds a way to make us be touching.. like if we are sitting next to each other and my arm is on the table he will make our elbows touch, or he will "accidently" bump our knees.. several times.
Some days, like today, he will be really cute. Today we sat together in class and he forgot his book so we had to share. Through out the whole class our hands were touching and when ever our faces were literally inches from each others he would whisper something funny or cute and make me laugh.
So some days we will talk to each other and hang out, but others its like we dont even know each other. He will walk by me with out saying hi, smiling or even looking my way! Like I don't even exist. It's like he is giving me all of these mixed signals and I'm going crazy!
I try not to be one of those guy crazed girls, but I really like M and I am just so confused as to what is going on! On the days we dont talk, sometimes we will make faces at each other across study hall, or I'll catch him looking at me but other than that--pthh!
What should I do? Do you think he likes me, or is just trying to be nice? Please be honest, I really want to know so I can do something about it!
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From what you have said... I think he likes you, but he is more interested in his status in his "popular" group.
The popular guys at my school are all jerks. But I guess the ones at yours could be different.
The guy you described seemed to be on and off with you... To me, I think you're wasting your time. But you should still hang out with him every so often.
Guys with mixed signals like this equals a heart broken somewhere. Be careful, and don't go too far down the road to properly falling for him until there's only one signal saying - I LIKE YOU, LIKE YOU.
Good luck, and remember, not everyone makes out to be what they seem...
- Fornorina
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Run as fast as you can! He is obvioulsy a hot and cold person that will only cause you grief. Trust me on this. If he is playing head games now, imagine what it will do to you when you give your full heart. I know we cant always control our feelings, and if thats the case then ignore him for a few days and see how he likes it. Men are hunters by nature and they love the challenge.
Lisa Marie f/40
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I think he likes you! :-)
I think you should tell him how you feel. Maybe he is just nervous/shy to tell you first. It's perfectly fine for girls to make the first move.
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