Member Since: February 12, 2010
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15/f sophomore
Okay. Well there is this guy I like (lets say he is M). I really like him. He is sweet, funny and cute. Almost perfect. I think he likes me too, but I'm not sure..
He hangs out with the "popular" group, if you can call it that. It's not like I'm not popular because I'm friends with almost everyone in that group, I just don't sit with them during lunch or classes.
Sometimes I think he may like me because he always finds a way to make us be touching.. like if we are sitting next to each other and my arm is on the table he will make our elbows touch, or he will "accidently" bump our knees.. several times.
Some days, like today, he will be really cute. Today we sat together in class and he forgot his book so we had to share. Through out the whole class our hands were touching and when ever our faces were literally inches from each others he would whisper something funny or cute and make me laugh.
So some days we will talk to each other and hang out, but others its like we dont even know each other. He will walk by me with out saying hi, smiling or even looking my way! Like I don't even exist. It's like he is giving me all of these mixed signals and I'm going crazy!
I try not to be one of those guy crazed girls, but I really like M and I am just so confused as to what is going on! On the days we dont talk, sometimes we will make faces at each other across study hall, or I'll catch him looking at me but other than that--pthh!
What should I do? Do you think he likes me, or is just trying to be nice? Please be honest, I really want to know so I can do something about it! (link)
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Run as fast as you can! He is obvioulsy a hot and cold person that will only cause you grief. Trust me on this. If he is playing head games now, imagine what it will do to you when you give your full heart. I know we cant always control our feelings, and if thats the case then ignore him for a few days and see how he likes it. Men are hunters by nature and they love the challenge.
Lisa Marie f/40
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15/f
I'm currently emotionally/physically involved with a guy I'm extremely interested in and attracted to. He's amazingly sweet and we both are not looking for relationships, just close friends and people to be there for each other. However, as much as I'm completely infatuated with him, I can still recognize when I've become intested in multiple people. His good friend and I happen to be interested in each other as well although we have no physical relationship. I'm content with where I am at the moment and get to be with the people that make me happiest (them) everyday.
If everything's going wonderfully but the friend with which I share a physcial relationship is ultimately doomed to fail, should I be looking ahead and actually work towards a relationship with the other, our friend, his good friend?
I'm unsure of what to do in this situation and would greatly appreciate some advice.
thank you (link)
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Are you 15 or 30? Its obvious to me your asking if its ok to hook up with his friend. You say you genuinely care about the guy your with, then leave his friend alone. Not only will you crush him and break his heart but you will leave with his friend. You just need to control your hormones and find someone without stepping on people to get there. No relationship works under those conditions. Respect and Trust is an important ingredient in love which he wont have after he watches what you do to his friend. Trust me on that one.it What kind of guy is he that he would do that to his friend anyway's? You seem like a bright girl.Open your eyes .Look before you leap! Lisa Marie f/40
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