Okay..so...there's this guy I like. A lot. And I'm more comfortable around him than any other guy I've ever liked. I haven't dated ever, but I want to date him. But I don't think he likes me in the way I like him. So I got two questions:
How do I figure out if he likes me without asking??
How do I let him know I like him without telling him??
Volleyball2150 answered Monday February 1 2010, 9:51 pm: you can tell if he likes you by the way he acts around you. here are some signs that he's into you-
- he smiles a lot and flirts a lot
- if he is really nice towards you but different around other girls
- sometimes guys will be really shy around a girl they like
- if he invites you to hang out a lot
- if something really random reminds you of him, it means he's thinking about you
you can let him know that you like him by flirting a lot with him. but dont do it too much that he'll think you're a player. smile a lot when youre around him and laugh at everything he does. ask him to hang out a few times. give him some stares (the ones that are starry eyed. not like a death stare lol.) and just be yourself.
i believe in fate. if it doesnt work out between you guys, then it wasn't meant to be. if you guys are just yourselves and you're having the time of your life, then its meant to be :)
gr8fruit answered Monday February 1 2010, 9:46 pm: Hi there,
To find out if he likes you without asking, you just have to get to know him better. What I mean is, on a more personal level.
See how he reacts around you. When you talk to him does he smile/grin at you? When you look at him, does he hold eye contact with you? Does he tend to talk to you in a different tone than anybody else? Do you ever catch him looking at you? Does he touch your shoulder or hair? Any of these things could mean he likes you. It will be the simple things that he does, only when around you that will tell you how he truly feels.
To let a guy know you like him, you have to flirt a little. Stare at him then hold eye contact when he looks at you, ask him to be your partner for a project, always smile around him, touch his arm or shoulder, send him a cute note, get to know him by communicating lots and just be yourself. Also, nothing lets a guy know you love him like finding things you have in common and finding ways to do them together.
Do not be afraid to get to know a guy, you can do anything. Guys always love a girl with three things: support for the guy, A great personality, and the courage to be themselves no matter what <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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