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Masterbation... Caught.... Mom!!! My mom came into my room to put clothes away and I was in the middle of masterbation! She saw EVERYTHING!
She just closed the door and left me alone. At dinner she didn't say a word. I could hardly look at her. :(
How do I look at her again? How do I make things normal? What do I do or say or do you say anything?
Please help!
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Ok....get yer mind clear on this....EVERYONE MASTURBATES!! Even yer mom. So don't sweat it and pretend it didn't happen and eventually the awkwardness will pass. But don't be embarrassed and be more careful next time. ]
dont worry about it seriously.i walked in on my brother masterbating.seriously the only way to not make it awkward is by trying to forget it ever happened.just move on and act like nothing happened.talk to your mum like you would normally.trust me its the best thign to do in situations like these ]
Are you male or female? It matters. If you're the same sex she'll probably talk to you about it reassuring that it's normal etc. If you're a male she'll likely have your father talk to you about what happened and promise to knock in future.
Until that occurs just go on as normal as there's a huge chance she'll never say anything. Mom's know that masturbation is universal with your age group both sexes and that 90% of males (all ages) and 70% of females according to stats do it. They probably knew or suspected you would be.
I wouldn't mention it to her or them unless you're approached with it first. In the future lock your door or get a doorknob put in with ability to lock and be discrete.
She's probably as embarrassed or more so than you are and likely will say nothing to try and have what happened go unmentioned. That's extremely so if you're male but more likely to talk to you if you're a girl or have dad do it. And it's not the end of the world if they do either. But for now treat life as it were normally.
You can't really make things "normal" or say something to do so. Over time it will be forgotten and they and you'll know that what you were doing is fine. The only lesson is to choose carefully where you engage in such activity and make sure you can't be walked in on. Trust me, this happens to guys and girls a lot. You aren't the only person and won't die if they did in fact mention it. ]
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