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boy thinks im a wh*re
i like this guy so i asked my friend to see what he thinks of me and he said im a whore! what the freak do i do now? drop it? dress more modest? i dont know! he always stares at my body so i dont get y hes complainging, im sure it was just locker room babble but still. sometimes guys liek whores.. (not that i am one!)
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A guy that thinks you are a "whore" is obviously a jerk who doesn't know the meaning of respect. I wouldn't even be surprised if he didn't know how to treat a woman the way they should be treated. Be yourself.. but straight forward MOVE ON
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find out why he thinks you are that?
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There's good attention and there's bad attention. Unfortunately, some of us don't learn till too late the difference between the two.
When I was a teenager, I showed a lot of cleavage, wore a lot of tight clothes that weren't necessarily flattering. I got some attention, but it was the wrong type.
What you're getting is apparently the wrong type, if this guy is labeling you as a whore! He may find you attractive... heck, most guys can't control their eyeballs when someone's showing too much. However, guys like a girl who they can be proud to have standing next to them; a girl they can (pardon the cliche) take home to meet mom.
Or it may be your manner of speaking, or the content of your speech, or your behaviours. Do you talk about sex a lot (or curse)? Are you at all, even the slightest bit, promiscuous? These things can put a guy off. They tend to like a more ladylike type of girl.
Try covering a bit more, wearing clothes that give a hint of what you've got as opposed to showing it all. Be a little more coy, as opposed to brazen.
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