ahhh so there's this guy in my class, but i can't talk to him. he looks kind of older, but im not sure. & im afraid to ask his age. he kind of looks like this guy from degrassi (lucas) mia's baby daddy and skeet ulrich. well a little. but yeah anyways i don't know his name or anything. hah how should i start talking to him, because we usually sit in different seats, & come in at different times, so sometimes he sits far away from me. the first tie we talked, i asked him if he re ad the 1st chapter, and then i said oh did you understand i t? and he was like excuse me? b/c he didn't hear me, and he was loud, and my teacher looked at me, so i got mad & gave him a mean look sort of. hehe. well i need help what should i do? because i can't talk to him after class since i have work right after? & during the class my teacher talks most of the time. help?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lolalufonda222 answered Sunday January 31 2010, 1:56 am: well im not sure why its so important to you that you talk to him but if it is...
1. see if you have any mutual friends that can introduce you without actually making it seem like you asked them to introduce them
2. trying sitting in his seat, hel ask you to move, you say no, you guys get to talking and whatever...it works on tv
3. trying coming to class the same time as him, running into him in the hallway, or sitting closer to him
4. ask for help in the class, pretend (or not, depending on how smart you are) that u are failnig and need his help....think "mean girls"
5. DO NOT try and talk to him at a time when the teacher is going to get mad, thats just gunna make him hate you and get annoyed
6. try joining a team or something that hes on
7. tell him his flies undone or he has booger or something, or ask to borrow a pen....
okayyy hope i helped, goodluck!
please please let me know how it goes. [ lolalufonda222's advice column | Ask lolalufonda222 A Question ]
orphans answered Friday January 29 2010, 2:06 pm: try and sit next to him in class when he comes in get up and sit next to him try to find an area of common interest for example if he likes sports talk about sports and there you go a conversation waiting to happen, not necaserily sports but something you both like [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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