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Sneaking out of the house
Heres whats up----
First before i write anything tell me not to do it i wont listen so dont bother.
Me and my two friends are planning on sneakign out of the hous up the street to a guy friends house and sleeping over..How do we get away with it?thats all im askin
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Well first off, I kind of agree with 'solidadvice4teens' why come here asking for this type of advice when you know many of us will tell you just to not do it?
Secondly, you know your own house better than any of us do. I'm sure you can find your way out better than any of us can tell you how. Out the front door? Out the backdoor? Climb out a window and onto a tree? It's not exactly rocket science.
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First off I am going to say it any ways. Its not a good idea if your parents wont let you go. I am sure they are going to ground you when they catch you. there really is no way to do it with out getting caught besides keeping your bedroom door locked. and being home before you usally get up in the morning that way your parents do not think you have been sleeping all night. But honestly if your parents catch you they arent going to trust you anymore. they will start checking on you through out the night. etc.
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Why did you bother to ask if you KNEW people would tell you it wasn't a good idea or something you refuse to listen to or see? That's sounding incredibly immature and brat like.
We're not here to help people deceive their parents nor encourage them to. If looking for that kind of advice Advicenators isn't the place.
You're NOT thinking straight. What if they find you gone from your room at night and can't find a soul who knows where you are? It's conceivable they would think you're missing and start calling around or even to the cops. I bet you never thought of that either.
What's to say you aren't taken advantage of sexually? Even if something was planned (which sounds like your reason for doing this btw) lack of birth control and or getting pregnant still exists as does assault or a situation you can't handle.
When you sleep at his place he's more or less in control of the situation as you're alone unless these two friends are present. It's NOT where you should be alone at night if you're meant to be asleep in your own bed.
Why if you're doing nothing more than hanging out can you not do so at your place or his at normal hours? There's an alterior motive in play here other than hanging out. What's at his place late at night that's attracted you to being there?
There will be people who will post their way of deceiving their parents and sneaking out but it will not help. Even if you aren't caught now you will later and can lose their trust permanently. I bet you never thought of being reported missing or them thinking of that. Not a good idea.
Believe me if the police are sent out to try and find you if your friends/family don't know who you're with you better know that it's not going to turn out well for you or them when found. In fact, besides your parents to deal with you may have to deal with the cops over mischief and wasting their time. THINK.
You really posted this question because there was that nagging voice trying to override your decision to go for it. Listen to what sounds right rather than your pals on thi
All you're thinking about is yourself and what I think is a predetermined notion to sleep with said guy and sneak out to do it. As for your friends they've got their own motives for what they do but like you, if they're missing or doing what you are doing all 4 of you could have a lot to deal with as adults always find out. It's not a good situation at all.
Like I said, if the three of you have legit reasons to hang out with certain guy than don't sneak out. See him during normal hours at a party, your house and where people can depend on you to be.
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