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Loss of interest
18/f
so my boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months. Our relationship has been really great and I love him so much.... But I seem to have lost interest. I never feel like having sex anymore and find my self feeling jealous of single people. What's wrong with me, or is it just something I'll get over.
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There's a chance it could be a phase & you'll get over it, but there's also a chance you're just not interested in him that way anymore. You may love him, but you're not in love with him. There's a difference and you need to decipher which one of those it is.
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I don't believe that five months is really enough to say you are actually in love with someone. It sounds to me like you were in love with the idea of being with him and its more of a friendship type of love than a romantic love. Try taking a break from each other and see how you feel about things then. You might feel better single or you might realize that you do want to stay with him. Be honest with him and let him know how you are feeling; he could feel the same way. I have been with my boyfriend four years now and I still envy my single friends even though I have never been happier with someone else. You just need to get settled into your life and remember that you are still young (as am i) and there are many options out there and you may come to realize he isn't the one for you (or at least not right now anyways) you never know what the future can bring to you
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Sounds like you should have waited longer to have sex.
Possibly a phase.
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sounds like, you still love him but you either need a break, or maybe you should stay single and try and keep him as a close friend.
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i have totally been in this situation before.
For me, it was because i felt like i was being tied down and the relationship was just kind of boring. I eventually broke up with the guy and realized how much happier i am without him. Usually it happens when your upset about something that's going on in the relationship, even if it's something little. Just give yourself time girl , and i promise you'll figure it out. Hope this helps!
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i have been in your situation before and by what yuo have told me i'd say your problem is you love him but like a friend and not like a boyfriend anymore. you would give anything for him if he needs it but your not inlove with him anymore. im sorry. i hope i helped.
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