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these questions are out of curiosity


Question Posted Friday January 8 2010, 3:21 pm

i've always been wondering about these questions.

1. so what if there were two lesbians or two gay men, one acts girly and the other one acts manly. wouldn't that make them straight?

2. what if there were two straight people and the male acted girly and the female acted manly. wouldn't that make them gay or lesbian?

3. alot of people say you can only lose your virginity once, but my friend is bisexual and she thinks you can lose it twice. once to a male and once to a female. so does it depend on the sexual orientation on how you think about it?



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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Friday January 8 2010, 9:06 pm:
the answers to 1 and 2 the way you act has nothing to do with your sexuality you can be a man who acts just like a female in many ways but still like female. and you can not lose your virginty more than once.

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Cux answered Friday January 8 2010, 7:35 pm:
The way you act is not your sexual orientation.

1. No. They are gay based on who they are sexually attracted to.

2. See number 1.

3. Some people say you can lose your virginity to a male and then lose your "female virginity". But, technically, once you have sex, you're not a virgin anymore.

--Jack
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gweedsx3 answered Friday January 8 2010, 4:18 pm:
i think all of these questions are how you think about it but these are my opinions:

1. Being a lesbian means that you are a woman and are attracted to/want to be involved with women. Being gay means that you are a man and are attracted to/want to be involved with men. I personally think it doesn't matter if you are feminine or masculine, if you are a woman attracted to women, or a man attracted to men then you are gay. Have you ever seen Chris Crocker? (and by no way am i saying that all gay men are like chris crocker, not at alll) But he is very feminine, more feminine than me and im a straight women, but he is still gay.

2. If you are straight, that means you are attracted to the opposite sex and if the mans attracted to men, that means hes gay, but if he is just feminine, then...well i guess thats his preference haha. and the same goes for the female.

3. Losing your virginity has many meanings. Some people believe losing your virginity happens when you have sexual intercourse, while others believe you lose it when you have oral sex. I think it depends on how you think about it. I found a website a couple of days ago and i thought it was interesting. It deals with the many factors of what it means to lose your virginity. Here it is:

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Hope i helped! Inbox me if you have any other questions (:

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rainbowcherrie answered Friday January 8 2010, 4:16 pm:
1. Sex and gender are different things. Sex is whether or not you ARE a male or female. It is not debateable. Gender is how you personally act or define yourself. No matter how you act, you are still the same sex. So two lesbians in a relationship would still be lesbians.

2. See above.

3. Technically, virginity is a penis penetrating a vagina or anus. It is a personal choice whether or not you feel that you can lose your virginity to another girl.

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