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bored with my relatonship...
Hello everyone,
so, im bored with my relatonship. I wanna break it off, but at the same time, i do love this guy, and i want to remain friends. This just seems so hard, becasue the way he talks about his ex's is scary, he hates them. ALSO-- i have been hearing that he is cheating on me, he says ha hasnt, i wanna beleive him, but i know he has a past of it, so idk what to do... I also like someone else, that likes me to, i have liked him for 3 years, and he has liked me to. help?
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Sounds like your in quite the pickle. First thing first, make sure that you really don't want to be with him. Think of him being with another girl. If you could handle it, then you probably should break up with him. If you do choose to break up with this guy absolutley try to remain friends. Be aware though, that he will probably be hurt, so don't expext him to wanna go out for beers the day after. It will need some healing time for him to resolve his feelings for you. This means no emails, texts, calls, whatever for at least a couple of weeks. Also staying on his good side will be somewhat benificial in case you feel like you've made a mistake in ending it and want to talk. Do all you can do. But remember you cannot control what he does, if he is notoriously a psyco ex, then he probably won't want to be friends. Also I agree with dottie, it wouldn't be a good idea to date this other guy for at least amonth. or until you and your (soon to be) ex are friends again. Trust me, he will not want to be friends if he still has feelings and you've already moved on. You sound like a very empathetic person, and i think its great that you are considering his feelings, i wish you the best.
XXXOOO
lonely_girl
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Just tell him you don't want to go out with him anymore. But I'm not sure he'll want to stay friends. A lot of people are funny about those type of things. I would at least give it a month before you start dating the other guy.
xoxo,
dottie4
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