Question Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 8:51 pm
So i recently started talking to this guy on facebook who i knew... i just never talked to. He's a sophomore in college and i'm a junior in high school.
My first question... is that do you think he's too old for me?
Now, he's really straight edge and doesn't do drugs or drink or smoke or anything! we have a lot in common and he's really nice. Normally when i talk to guys like this they end up wanting something, or just want to fool around or are just plain old creepy. And i'm not getting that vibe from him at all, he's really nice and sweet. My parents would kill me if i went out with him... despite the fact he has tatoos and piercings =/
help?
is he too old?
If not, what do i do about my parents?
AdviceMistress answered Thursday November 5 2009, 4:31 pm: Not at all, it maybe difficult though because you're still in high school and he's in college. The different environments that you are in may effect whether or not a relationship will or can start out. Well I'm guessing your either 16, 17, or 18 and if thats the case you have to let your parents know that they can't continue to tell you who to date. Just sit down and have a talk with them about and let them know whats going on. [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
youronmymindx answered Wednesday November 4 2009, 9:52 pm: i dont think hes too old for you.
ive dated guys the same age as this guy is and im the same age as you too.
ive always said age is just a number. but it has to be resonable. not like you being 18 and him being 24. that would be kinda badd haha
also youre parents are the same as mine. i sneak around with all the guys ive been with and im not suggesting that becuase its not worth getting in trouble for.
you should just tell your parents he is a friend if he ever comes and picks you up or something
also your parents are gonna have to let go sometime soon anyways becuase youre gonna be 18 before you know it and they cant control your life forever and who you can and cant be with.
and since its almost winter make sure he wears a sweatshirt or something that covers his tattoos just incase your parents want to talk to him or something.
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