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so just to give u a background, im 16, girl, 2 parents, both doctors, an older sister and 2 little sisters. my paretns are both really strcit and anoyying and unreasonable. they always punish me and stuff for the stupidest reasons and i cant do anythnig about it. fighting bac does nothing becauswe they dont care what i have to say. and they would nebver think their wrong. and i cant rebel or anything because thel just punish me more. so basily they own me and i have to listen to all of their ridiculous ideas and theirs nothing i can do. i cant live like this. i need help. advice? words of wisdom? just anything to getme throught this....
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Growing up my parents where the same way but I got away with things I ended up 15 and pregnant. Not saying you would do the same things I would do. Your parents are strict and unfair because they are your parents and want the best for you. I am sure they let you go out with your friends and things like that but your best bet is to clean around the house keep your room clean. Clean the bathroom, Kitchen pick up if you see a mess they will be more leniant and yes at first they will ask you well what do you want. Keep up with it and try and help them out i am sure they have stressful jobs and want to raise their children good.
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My dads a prosecuter and he's probably the strictest person in the world. He never let's
me to do anything. I love to read, it takes me out of the real world and into another and makes me forget for the time that I'm reading. Its really helpful. Parents can be aweful at times, they can be the worst. But try and talk to them about it. Reason with them. Tell them how they make you feel. Write it all down to make sure you cover all of it, and sit them down and talk to them. Its hard for parents and teenagers to understand one another. Try to play card games or do something with them to get closer to them or connect with them. Good luck, I've had a lot these problems. Its hard I know. You'll be grown sooner than you know it.
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Parents can be difficult...my mom and I constantly butt heads about stupid things. Ever since I reached my teenage years my mom is always up my back and even yelling at me for not taking out the trash. What I would do is sit back and look at you and what are you doing wrong. Not saying you are doing anything wrong but look and see what could I do to make this situation better? If that doesn't work I would try and reach out to someone outside of your home that you are close to and that you go see to "escape" your parents. Sometimes parents tend to take their stress out on the kids at home but you don't need that! At the end of the day you have to realize they do love you and still care about.
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