me and this guy have been affectionate towards each other for a long time .. probably about a year now. i've known him for oh god 4 years. we've never had sex, but we always want to it just never happens. he recently broke his wrist playing hockey and got surgery on it, and thinks we can have sex! i was like ahhhh; babe pretty sure you need your wrist to heal first! and he was like hahah why? and i was like well because it may be kind of painful for you. i didn't know what he was thinking! i seen him the day he got his surgery and it looked like he was in pain. it sucks though, because i really WANT him, my hormones have been going crazy but i dont want him to be in pain. the ONLY way i was thinking we could EVER have sex while his wrist was healing is if i was on top, but i've never done that before and wouldn't know what i was doing, and i would want to be on the bottom but that would be difficult for him, right? because he basically has to hold himself up and he has a broken wrist. do you guys see this as any possibility? i've never broken a bone before so i don't know how long it takes to heal, if it starts feeling better after a while or what. i just want to know if you guys think that itd be at all possible for us to have sex? he seems to think so . . but that was BEFORE he had his surgery, but his wrist was still broken when he told me that.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Injuries? sobeg answered Tuesday November 3 2009, 3:50 pm: ....mmmk...Now before you go and low grade me because i wont tell you what you want to hear..my opinion is id wait. i mean the least that you want is for discomfort to play a role on stopping in ritual. I mean itl be safer and heck the wait will let you really think to yourself and ...really if you havent had sex before for so long and youre not even in a commited relationship...and his wrist is broken ...uh..maybe it isnt meant for you both to have sex...i mean think about it. I know youre at a legal age to decide to have sex but...i dontknow the way i see it it shoulda already happend if it was meant to be. Im not going to tell you teo go have sex with a random guy because of your ragging hormones and im not suggesting to masturbate cause thatll just tick you off more...i guess what im saying is let him heal and really find out if you guys are in love and ready for the next step. then if you still want to have sex and his wrist is healed heck go at it like theres no tomorrow...just take it easy
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