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need to be reassured


Question Posted Monday November 2 2009, 6:04 pm

Okay so the other night i was fooling around with this guy and i wouldnt call what we did sex because it never fully went in and im pretty sure he never came.however he didnt use a condem, but ive been on birthcontrol for a good 3 years but this weekend i missed pills and lost my birthcontrol and am getting a new pack in like an hour. And my cherrys never even been popped. I know obviously theres still a chance i could be pregnant but i guess i need someone to reassure me that im just freaking myself out. Also i got over my period like 3 weeks ago but than was bleeding for a couple of days last week because i missed pills. Im supposed to get it next week, so what should i do till than? I reallly just need someone to calm me down about it.



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sobeg answered Tuesday November 3 2009, 6:37 pm:
the chances of you getting pregnant is 50 50 but no one can really tell. I wint say that you are and i will not say you are not. I will say this though that the more you use the pill the more your body has a high chance of adapting and getting pregnant may not be easy but every body is diffrent. I will not lecture you on this but i will say this think about having sex and remember that it is a responsibility to take as many measure to prevent yourself from getting pregnant if that is what you want to do.
I hope this helps

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karenR answered Tuesday November 3 2009, 7:15 am:
I wasn't going to answer this but you got a lot of misinformation so I will.

1. The hymen (cherry) is NOT a solid barrier that sperm couldn't get through. For more info...[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

2. The hymen is NOT inside you somewhere. It is an
external covering. If he was inside you at all...even just a little, chances are it was either broken, or you didn't have one.

3. You should always take your pills daily to be absolutley sure you do not get pregnant. However, since you have been on the pill for 3 years already, your chances of getting pregnant because you missed a couple of pills, is very small. Try not to forget again, but you are more than likely not pregnant this time. Every medication a person uses has some sort of half life. You have 3 years worth in your system.

4. Do not panic if you don't get your period on time this month, or if those couple of days you had are it. Missing pills could be the cause and not a pregnancy.

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DiVine answered Monday November 2 2009, 11:26 pm:
Hay reassured...here my advice cause the other one just don't sound right so im keep it real
if he didn't stick it in and he didn't bust in you and you came on your period even with extra days so no I don't think your pregnant at all
even doe he didn't make it all the way in he had to bust and if he didn't do that then there is no baby...okay

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kat_and_jess answered Monday November 2 2009, 8:37 pm:
If he never went in and never came then I don't think you're pregnant.
His penis has to go in, and he has to come inside of you, for there to be a chance of getting pregnant.
So don't worry. Stop stressing. Just relax and wait until your period comes next week. If it doesn't then you should take a pregnancy test just to be sure.
But I don't think your pregnant.

Good luck

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