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getting a girls attention
im 16 boy
i have REALLY bad luck with girls. i dunno if its bad luck, or if im doing somethign wrong. its not thatim ugly or fat. im 5'7, medium build, asian. whatever. but i always end up freaking girls out by the stupid things that i say. they said that i go on too fast, and some say too slow. so i tried middle, BUT THAT DOESNT WORK EITHER!
ughhh this is soooo confusing and i feel like giving up on girls forever. help me
please dont give me an obvious asnwer. i want details, long explanations
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Not Bad Luck you just lack charm. Close your eyes & imagine what James Bond would be like to watch if you were the main charactor with your personality? O.k. get the picture. Now try to take a bit of that swave sophisticated James Bond with you when your in the company of a girl. Sometimes silence is golden a smile & a look can be memorable. Ask questions peole love to talk about the things they like. You don't have to fall all over yourself trying to impress, leave that for the comedians. There is a book on the market or the libuary called "How to win friends and influence people to your way of thinking" by Dale Carnigie. Step by step instructions on the Art of conversation. You will be amazed at just where your going wrong.
Never lend this book you'll never get it back it's so good. Good Luck
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Take a few deep breaths to calm yourself down and get yourself prepared before you talk practice what you want to say before you do start a conversation that way when you actually do talk you won't forget everyone's nerves get the best of them sometimes it's normal to be nervous
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Well you should just be more laid back and let the girls come to you man so don't get discourged and don't give up. you sound like a good man so they are the ones missing out not you. just be nice and try to be their friend. talk to them and listen to them show them you care.
signed,ask Brian the advice columnist
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Um, girls are complicated. I would know.
If you start being obvious about liking us way too soon, we freak out. It takes me a while to start liking a guy, no idea about most girls though. Going too slow just pisses us off, cause it's like.. we get it already, c'mon. Haha, the middle's fine. You just have to find the right girl, that's all.
I don't really get your question? But just don't go up to a girl and start telling her how beautiful she is. She'll be flattered, but she'll be a bit creeped out. Don't ignore her; That's just dumb. Become friends first. Start out with normal conversations. Laugh, loosen up, be easy-going. Joke around. If she drops something, pick it up for her. Do random favors like that, but again, don't try too hard. Find something you both have in common. Compliments are okay once you get to know us more and don't over do it.
We can tell when a guy is trying too hard, so just chill.
Don't go trying to find love. Love'll find you.
Hope I helped? Even though I don't think I did. Sorry! But goodluck! :D
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